EA's Origin Blows

Ok Origin why is it ok to knock the very games you launch out of play just for your updates?

So I am playing fifa 13 then suddenly the screen goes dark then my desktop shows up while my game keeps playing.
What program was so aggresively demanding my attention?

Its fucking ORIGIN!

This happens all the time there is not a good way to turn it off either I looked. The actual game launcher is ruining the actual game. No fucking wonder that people hack these games so they don't have to deal with these lousy fucking launch applications that care more about themselves than the actual games they were designed to provide.

Get your dicks out of each others asses and stop fucking ruining my gaming experience ORIGIN!

Also EA can you get someone to fix the last update you did to FIFA 13. It is ruining the game.